allmysecretsaway

a message to everybody

rosepetalsweets:

I can honestly tell you that no two situations are alike, not life nor death nor things that happened after that. Death is inevitable, and we experience it. In a way it’s normal in its abnormalNESS way. Fact is some move on quicker, some do not, but i don’t think anyone forgets. S*** of the matter is, when secrets start revealing itself after death, i can bluntly say your in for a whirlwind. So this what I say for the people who think that moving is on is so easy:

          #1 You don’t know how it feels like until it happens to you. piece of advice, don’t say its okay, CAUSE IT IS SO NOT.

          #2 It doesn’t mean that if you have experienced death of a person you love and care for and you have moved on already  that you have the right to tell anyone that they are immature because they have not moved on as quickly as you did, Cause as i said before no two situations are alike. So here’s another advice, don’t bitch on and tell a person “ako nkpgmove on nung nmtayan ako” it just makes matters worse.

          #3 If a person who is grieving tells you, you don’t understand, BELIEVE them, because they know better. They maybe your friend BUT they can’t tell you everything. FAMILY matters are strictly family matters. So here’s advice number three if they tell you there is a secret after death and its CONFIDENTIAL, strictly family members only, do not force them to tell you what the secret is. YES you are friends but face it, even if you are so close like FAMILY, you are just not.

I’m not trying to be mean, dramatic or anything, I just wanted to convey this. So some of you people who think they understand.learn something. Cause i just hate it when you keep telling me it has been months and shit like that. CAUSE you do not know everything that happened. This goes out to everybody. Everybody who thinks they know better about our situation, YOU JUST DON’T so don’t act like you do.

what’snew

rosepetalsweets:

ELEVATED.the usual.

I come across the feeling of wonder today, two years ago i was sitting just like this infront of the laptop, being bored, no doubt and can’t help but remember that two years ago college was all a blur, not only to me but also to my friends. Two years ago i could count the hands that were raised when a teacher asks the question ”cnu ng may course?” Today it’s a different the question it’s not “cnu ng may course?” it’s “kelan pasukan?” I don’t know maybe i just got so used to waking up and having the “pasukan” as friends do. Actually i did, i kinda miss em.kinda lng JK :). i miss em a lot. every single person that i saw, i talked to, i ate with. just everybody.

How times have changed, while i’m sitting here con and hannah and the others have (maybe) just come home from La Salle. I wish them all the best.

And i wish you all the best my dear batchmates :)

I hope that all 90 or 92 of us meet our goals and aspirations.